Since you asked for my 2c... No. At least, I've never known it. I will acknowledge, however, that after one night or a couple weeks I can really dig someone, and know that the potential for a LTR is there, and have lots of fun with and be excited about someone. But, can anyone know themselves well enough to fall in love with someone overnight? Not in my book.
My rule of thumb for rebounds - if you're with someone for a year then break up, don't take your feelings toward anyone new too seriously for the next six months.
Don't mean to sound pessimistic, though; just take it easy and good luck with "dude"...
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