[DsBlu01CivEX]

At this point in my life, marriage/family....hell even a serious relationship...isn't really that high on my list of things to do/get. My education, my job, and my social life are the most important things to me right now. I'm not sayin that I would deny a date or even a bf at this time, but regardless of what he is doin/wants to do...I'm gonna do my thing. If I had a serious bf right now and he told me that his job wanted to move him to South Dakota and he'd like it if I came with him....I'd have to tell him no that I can't right now. Once I graduate from college, sure I'd love to....but I gotta get what is gonna benefit me in the long run. Now I know that I could transfer schools, but who is to say that I'm going to get the same quality of education somewhere else? My school is one of the top 5 state schools in the states for my major...and I'm not about to give that up.

So basically the moral of this story is....Once I'm doin what I need to do to better my life...sure I'd probably do whatever for my man if I thought he was the one that I would grow old with and he felt the same way about me.