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Now that I've had a few weeks to step back and look at the situation, I realize that the girl was cool, but she wasn't quite right for me.
I know now that I am physically not attracted to her at all, and she is too pushy about relationship type stuff. Nothing would ever be good enough.
My main criteria for having a girlfriend is whether or not I could see myself with her as husband/wife. Not that I'm thinking about marrying a girl when I ask her to be my girlfriend, but I feel that if I wouldn't want a long term relationship with someone, why committ myself to her? That's what dating/seeing eachother is for. Not that I keep seeing someone if I don't see anything progressing, which is why I ended up splitting with this girl.
That's probably the main reason why I so rarely have a girlfriend, because I won't go out with just anyone, I only go out with the ones I truly have feelings for. Oh well, to make an already long post less long, we are friends now, and I really feel that I did the right thing, both for my sake and for hers.
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