I know how it feels about comparing IQ's. I am just an engineer while she on the other hand is a linguist. Sometimes I feel incompetent around her. The main thing is that we love each other and I failed to realize that until she basically threatened to leave me because our relationship was going nowhere. I figured I did not want to lose her and might as well take a chance in life. I have never regreted my decision to marry her even though we do get into our quarrels. But I do wish that sometimes I could just give her away!
But I would never do it.