well here's the update.
I saw her in the mall (since i work there) and she was with her ex (who i'm decent friends with) and we started small talk and i asked her why she blew me off, and she gave me some bullshit excuse. And then i was like well lets do something tonight and she's like fine.....
once again, no phone calls, blown off.
So she goes home to kentucky and i try to IM her, and she doesn't give me the time of day and says shes busy. Seriously wtf did i do? I hate it when that happens, i try to be a nice guy and then i get shit on.
