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Old 08-08-2004, 10:06 PM   #17
BlackWolf
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Damn. That's messed up. Is there a chance that she could go to some counciling? I know there are several organizations that she could get in contact with that more than likely could help with putting her in touch with the right people to help. I can't think of any off the top of my head right now but I really don't want you to get into financial trouble too. I'm NOT saying to NOT help her, help her in any way emotionally but not with your money, you might end up being a financial crutch. Be there for her to help her get the strength to get back up on her own two feet but she's got to want to do that for herself. I've been in a similar situation but not to the same degree. I had no one for any emotional support or even financial, except for mom and dad but I wasn't even going there. Another long story for another time. She needs your friendship now more than ever but please don't get yourself in a bind yourself either. You may have no idea the extent of her emotional/financial needs. Help her with the want ads, online searchs and whatnot but please keep in mind YOUR needs also. Don't let them get neglected. In order to help her you've got to help yourself and keep your prospective of the situation clear. Best wishes to you both.
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