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Originally posted by Kool-Aid
Rob, just like what somebody said earlier...she will come to you. My father was NEVER in my life...and probably wouldn't still be in it if it weren't for me going out to see who he is. Yes, I, his eldest daughter sought out and found him. Financially, it would probably be a good idea, but just because your ex's hubby adopted her, doesn't demote you from being her real father. I think you should try your hardest to develop and maintain a relationship with her so that she won't be confused as she gets older. My parents were divorced...so I know how those things can be.
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This is so true. My father (not trying to steal this from you) left me and my brother when i was 8 and he was 11. He completely disappeared. Then 2 weeks after I turned 18 (meaning he doesnt pay support) he shows up again and calls me. Personally I wish he never would have. And if your daughter finds out that you left her and never contacted her she would probably think the same thing of you. I dont know if I would tell she is adopted because you know how that tears some kids up. It would probably be better to be known as "good friend" than "the dick that couldnt handle his responsibility"
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me from another forum (im the top geekz0r)
the geekz0r (11:03:46 PM): basicly, look at it this way...the 6speed is the same is the 5speed in 2,3,4,5,and 6...only the speeds are different because of the fd
the geekz0r (11:04:16 PM): so 2nd pulls like 1st in the 5speed, 3rd is like 2nd, etc.
PortugeeTex (11:04:26 PM): so whats 1st like then?
the geekz0r (11:04:49 PM): 1st is like hitting a cheeta in the ass with a tazer
PortugeeTex (11:04:53 PM): lmfao
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