there are 2 ways (probably more...) to get mtf into the tranny
1) the fill plug on the side of the tranny
2) from the vss hole on top/back of the tranny
(I fill via the vss because its A LOT easier)
read through this post:
http://honda-tech.com/zerothread?id=382416
and you can get a good idea of where stuff is. Then go outside and find it on your car.