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Originally posted by biker's back
Rob your major issue with this argument is the fact you think cheating is because of 'bad sex' I have news for you. Bad sex isnt what drive women away from their men.
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Well I have had sex with 2 married girls (I know, not good but that's another story) and in both cases the reason why they had sex with me was not because they were being emotionally deprived but because both females had husbands with little dicks (came from their mouths) and they were not getting satisfied. I "hurt" both girl sexually the first couple of times that we had sex because they weren't use to girth. I am not by any means saying that I am big, thick, or otherwise but every single girl that I have been with has said that I am bigger than the average they were used to. By the way, both females are still with their husbands.....they were just filling a sexual drive that was not being taken care of by their mates....
Anyway, enough of that....now I hear what you are saying and I very highly agree that better sex comes from having a strong emotional connection in a relationship.....no argument from me on that....
Now, on your comment about me not knowing how a relationship between how a male and a female works I will disagree with you on my friend....I know very well how it works...I also know how flawed "we" are as a society and there really is no strong bond left in relationships these days. I know what my idea of a strong, loving, monogamous relationship should be and trust me, I have tried to be a loving husband, father, and friend and all that got me was screwed over. Not because of anything that I did...I just picked the wrong women to be with.
Now, in regards to the last 18 women I have been with...Rob, to be perfectly honest with you....they have all just been something to fulfill my sexual needs and that is it. At the time of my divorce, I was 23 and had only been with 3 females.....one of those my wife. I was never openly sexual with every women I met. The two girls prior to my wife were long-term girlfriends that I ended up eventually have sex with. Now, after I got divorced, I got bitter and decided that all I wanted was numbers. Have sex with as many girls as possible and have no emotional connection what-so-ever. I did that for about a year and tallied up 12 bringing me to a grand total of 15. The last three consisted of an attempted relationship and two one-night-stands.
Finally....while things were good with me and my wife and we had that "bond".....she still couldn't keep up with my ass....she would constantly be sore and have to take breaks to "heal"....