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Originally posted by biker's back
Its sad when people are willing to sleep around with a bunch of people, protected or unprotect. You never pay for it now but one day you will have to live with the choices you've made and it might cost you alot. If I was getting married and I got the final list from my soon to be wife and she'd been with 40 or 50 (or more) guys I wouldnt be interested in marrying her. Think about what you're doing and not being caught up in the here and now.
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Is it because of the idea that a girl who sleeps around a lot is thought of being a slut? On the other hand, guys aren't looked down upon if they had a lot of partners. If you are waiting until you two are getting finally married and then turning her down because she finally gave you the count, then you should have asked her earlier in the relationship and decided then if she is wife material or not. On the other hand, would you even consider continuing the relationship knowing she had been with so many guys? If you are thinking yes, then why is she dateable but not marriageable? You are still getting the leftovers from all the guys before you...
I'd rather she had her fun beforehand and as long as she doesn't sleep with 40 or 50 guys after we are married, I could care less. But if she has some incurable std, all bets are off. I like to free of rashes or piss without some burning sensation, thank you...