[ShagginJet]

I know exactly what you mean, but the way you and i think and or feel isn't going to change the world. The TRUTH is that people get hurt, people put up walls, people won't open up emotionally to another person until they're ready. Whether or not that point comes before or after sex really doesn't matter. In most cases people are more willing to get personal sexually then they are to get personal emotionally.

I think it's very sad, but it's the way the world is. Once someone is hurt it's so hard, sometimes impossible, to get that person to open back up again. to have them accept who they are and to let another person back into their life.

I just got burnt by this / about this. The girl wasn't ready, so what happen, she left me hanging. There's nothing you can do about it but to accept the way certain people are. Just because someone isn't ready now doesn't mean they won't be ready later, if i'm still around that is.

That make sense?