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Originally posted by ShagginJet
^ Just because you're having emotionally detached sex with someone doesn't mean it's not good/loving, and it doesn't mean that you're sleeping around. Sometimes you need to be close to someone, just because you're not in love or falling in love (or plan to) with them doesn't mean that you can't be close sexually/physically/emotionally. I've had a couple detached relationships, i'm 23, and my final number is still under 10.
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I think thats a completely backwards way and looking at sex. Sex is supposted to be the closest way two people can get together. Yet people seem to be willing to let anyone or a select few sleepw ith them before they settle down. What are people doing to themselves? They'll allow someone to get inside them or sleep with them but they wont open up emotionally. People have it all backwards.
Call me a prude, tell me you dont understand what I'm saying but it does make sense people. Emotionally you should be there before you go having sex with someone.
It simple terms its like trying to drive a car without a motor, sure you can push it along, sure it'll go down a hill and coast on the flats for a bit. But without the motor it isnt going anywhere but down.