[DsBlu01CivEX]

I'm with Biker on this one....dude totally be yourself and if you are mature and carry high morals and standards for yourself, then be that person. don't let what people around you are doing affect your decision making skills. I do think that you should let your "hair" down and live a little. I'm not sayin to go sleep around and what not, but I think that gettin out and going to some parties and stuff does any person some good. It gets them to relax and have a lil fun and forget about the everyday things that bother them.

If your ex's actions bother you that much, then maybe you should cut your ties with her completely. Sure it sounds a lot easier than it is, but I think that you stressin over what she's doing and not doing is making you not be able to have a good time in college. We all define who we're going to be as an adult in college (and for those that aren't in college, that age range). So you really need to think about who you want to be as an adult and what goals you want to accomplish as an adult and start working towards them.