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Some of what you said may be true...I didn't bother to read the post in it's entirety since your last posts was so nonsensical. That being said you can't lump all of a woman's issues into "personal problems". There's a saying in the technology world called time and place utility...a product is only worth as much as where it is and when. As much I hate to draw a parellel between women and a product, the concept remains the same. Any given women can be comfortable with a given guy...but it has to be the right guy or else the action is useless. That doesn't mean she's the one with the problem. The fact that she's uncomfortable may rest entirely on the guy's shoulders. There's a certain duality here...a dichotomy if you will. If the girl is comfortable with YOU then great things can happen. If she's not comfortable with YOU then hilarity will surely ensue (well...at least for everyone else). As has been stated before in this thread, it's the responsibility of both parties to make sure they're comfortable enough with the situation before undertaking it or else the results will be shit. You can't blame it all on a girl's "personal problems"...that's just assinine. It takes two to tango, as it were.