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Originally posted by biker's back
I think you really have to get a grip on what influence you have over this Ex of yours. You're at different schools, leading very different lives now and with different friends. For good or for bad she's goign to need to live life up. I didnt say sleep around, but she's going to try new things and hopefully she'll be a better person because of it.
If this really bothers you take alook at yourself and dig deep as to why you want what you want. I've let a relationship end because that is what was best for her. We didnt talk for 8-9 months and then boom she starts calling me again wondering what I've been up to. Just let it roll dude and dont try to control things outside of your control. Her friends will only ever see you as the bf trying to control her life from far away. They have more influence on her now then you do so let her make her own choices and try to move on.
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Sound advice - basically, if you are always trying to be a part of her life, she will think, "Wren isnt going anywhere, if i want him i can have him blablablabla" . . . . If you let go (or act that way), then she will [might?] think, "OMFG what have i done? Wren is gone . . ." - maybe, and if she doesnt, then you did the right thing anyways.
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Originally posted by biker's back
I've let a relationship end because that is what was best for her.
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i know love means letting go, but it didnt seem fair to me . . . . now, i hate her because of it, because of how fucked up things got, fuck it, ill never talk to her again.