Good advice, thanks. That was the problem; her hippie/surfer friends there with their "need to experience life" bullshit influencing her against me. It wasn't so much that I was bad, just that she hadn't experienced things because of me and needed to. I couldn't talk shit to them, because they were around her and I wasn't, and my ex was easily influenced, so she would listen to them and not me. Basically they f*cked with her head and made her think short-term instead of long-term.
My ex and her roomate both have liked Ani for a while; they aren't femanazis; her roomate has a guy that she has regularly hooked up with for like 6 months but NEVER talks to (wtf is that?!?), and my ex certainly isn't (as the pic you've seen can attest).
I'm really not looking to resolve anything between myself and the ex right now, it simply WON'T work between us with the distance, so for a while I'm just not gonna talk to her, and after college or whatnot we can see if it is still good between us when we are together. For now I'm just gonna have fun here and let her have fun there, and after college is our only chance, so I'll wait until then (or find someone better along the way). I don't know where I'm going with this, so I'll just end it.
