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When you honestly ask a woman what makes a great guy for her the answers are so vague and general that its a joke. Most of them come down to... tall, nice eyes, respectful, caring, easy to talk to and funny. But see there is a ton more that plays into this then people let on. someone who fits this mold still might not be someone you're attracted to.
Now what I wonder is why someone even cares about what a bunch of women think are the 'perfect guys.' Just as much as ones mans rice is anothers fav car, perception of what makes a perfect man will vary from woman to woman. Just as much as the perfect guy, however i think guys see it alot simply then women (lets not get into that).
None the less, I think its so tipical that a bunch of women talk about 'their perfect' guy. The women talking, bitch and feeling sorry about life and how they cant seem to find the right ones are the ones not in decent relationships, but dont bother to do anything about it.
You rarely hear a happy woman talking about what her perfect man is like, because she's either found it or thinks shes found it. Either way shes happy for the moment. But just as you can watch a woman be hot one moment and then cold the next and nothings changed about your eviorment the samething goes for relationships. This is because women are more emotional creatures then males and this complicates things.
Take one of your gfs thats never really held down a steady relationship. She'll blame it on never finding the right guy. But hey news flash people, it doesnt take as much for a guy to want to stay with a girl as it does for a girl to want to stay with a guy. Girls need more, nothing wrong with that but the girls complaining about not finding a nice guy should look inwards before they point the fingure at others. More often then not its themselves that are the problem. Bad past, emotional issues, working too much, scared.. you name it. This all leads to a relationship ending badly or hell not even starting.
Dont get me wrong by all this, in no way am I putting women down. I love the woman I'm with and God willing if things keep going this way I see no reason to change things between us. So I dont say this is anything but 'this is what i've seen' type thing. Women talk more about this stuff but do less, guys (i've seen) talk less and do more.
Does that explain it?
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