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I dunno Kool-Aid...this thread is a bit presumtuous. By no means are all or even most guys assholes to chicks...chicks just seem to seek out these asshole guys like a fuckin sidewinder missle (and the results of said relationships are also much like the result of a sidewinder missle). Besides...it's not like women have to hang around. If they notice that this guy's a dick then they can get up and walk away. Most don't. They use excuses like "I wanna give him a second chance" or "you don't know him like I do" to mask the fact that they're so incredibly insecure they can't stand to be alone. Love is one thing but when a guy treats you like shit it's NOT love. And of course it's hard to walk away from someone you care about...but if you don't then you have absolutely NO right to complain about the way he treats you. I by no means endorse such behavior, but it's time for women to learn their role in such matters. Women ARE NOT innocent bystanders...they have a proactive stance in these settings...leave or stay. They can leave and hope to find something better or hang around and shut the fuck up about the way they're being treated because it's their choice to be there. If a guy's hit you and you're still with him, I have no sympathy for you if you get hit again...if it happens once you leave and if you don't then you deserve what you get since it's a direct result of your own inaction. Sorry if this offends anyone, but that's the way I see it. I don't wanna hear about how bad a guy treats you while you're going home to him every night.

BTW Rob...you're totally correct. I'll venture to say 99% of internet-born relationships involve profoundly disturbed women.