Dimitry...the example I gave was actually when I worked in the shoe dept not the bras and panties!!!! Actually it kinda creeps me out when guys are shopping in the intimates part of my dept.
And yah Blackwolf, I noticed my tat is a convo starter too. *mental note, wear more backless shirts* I am somewhat shy, but compared to the girls that I'm usually with, I'm the outgoing one. I think maybe it has a lot to do with my body language. I normally stand with my arm crossed across my chest. That's when I'm not holding a drink, which is a lot more common these days since I don't have the money to spend on buying drinks out. I try not to, but I feel uncomfortable standing any other way. I don't go out looking for someone...and I kinda have the "whatever" attitude your talking about. I guess I just need to develop it a little more.
Oh and the no bra thing....that would NEVER work for me. I'm a little too busty to do that. They might hurt someone!!!!
The girls must have some support. I tend to "forget" the other undergarment we wear.