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No, your not being unreasonable. First thing to tell a girlfriend or wife is your possibility of being away for a long amount of time. Since, you said you told her, and there is nothing you can do about it. By staying with you, she is saying that she is willing to try and live with it. NOT EVERYONE IS MEANT TO BE IN THE MILITARY OR HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH A MILITARY INIDIVIDUAL. If that significant other can't handle it, and decides to leave, then you know you did your best to work things out and shouldn't feel like it's your fault or that your were unreasonable. You can't make someone like the military. Either you do or don't. But if the other person really wants to be with you, then she will. Simple as that, no matter how hard it is. GOOD LUCK!
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