Hey...I wouldn't mind my thread being all whored up...so long as it's all relevent. Here's my take...I do agree with the whole "don't look for a girl, look for a woman" thing. But here's my issue. I (like many others here) am in college...the only women around here are professors and that's just wrong wrong wrong (here's to you Mrs. Robinson). If girls don't know what they want they shouldn't be out there looking for it (a bit of an oxy moron...looking for something when you don't know what you're looking for). And sure...looks matter...anyone who says different is selling something (thank you Princess Bride
). Here's my beef: I'm 22 years old and can tell you exactly what I want in a female companion and won't compromise in the name of a meaningless relationship and/or sex...is that too much to ask of my female counterparts? I've never dated a girl just because she was hot or had a nice body or was good in bed or whatever but know plenty of females who can't say the same thing (this goes for guys as well but to a lesser extent) When you reach 20 or so I'd say you've had plenty of time to f@ck around and play the field and you've got a pretty good handle on your sexual and emotional identity. My point was that many women/girls say they want one thing yet habitually date another. Many times over the years I've had hardcore feelings for girls who, in retrospect, said they wanted a guy exactly like me (as far as qualities go)...they just didn't want me. Then they end up in nowhere relationships and come complain to me they wish they could meet a guy like me. Well...WHO THE F@CK IS MORE LIKE ME THAN ME?!? Now...I'd like to think I'm not a horribly unattractive guy...I'm no GQ cover model...but I'm not the hunchback of Notre Dame (aside from my slight physical abnormality what with the shorter arms and all). So what gives? I believe that many girls/women can be a little TOO hung up on looks. This isn't solely specific to women, but I find it's more prevelent with them. Maybe I just hang out with a bunch of freaks who actually care what people have to say and what they're about more than what they look like or how they can f@ck. But hey...what do I know...it's been so long since I got laid I'm starting to wonder if they've changed it. As per usual...it's just my $0.02.