i don't know whether i'm for it or against it. i had one of these...but it didn't start out that way. this guy was the first and only guy i've ever been with (i'm 22 btw).
i mean i liked him soooo much before we ever slept together...and of course like a dumbass...i thought once we did...we'd like start a relationship. well that never happened. but we became really good friends.
and since then we've messed around a few more times and really i think it can't be all that bad...unless one of you is attached. i'm somewhat attached to him. and it like erks me when he dates girls...i know it shouldn't but it's hard to deal with.
so i guess my answer is that its NOT harmless as long as both of u are unattached and safe about it.
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