sorry i missed this whole thread and I don't know if you have had this situation resolved already or not...but no matter what you have to tell the father of the baby, because it's not anyone's choice except his to whether or not he participates in this kids life. your parents should definately be first or shortly after the father of the child....they will be the ones there for you now and further on down the road. They can't make the choices for you, but they may be the greatest influence on anything like this. They will keep everything in check throughout life and will be the ones you'll end up turning to in those bad times for advice, money, or just good ol' support. And.....i really don't know if this would be the best thing for your life right now...your not to excited and your already questioning everything about it. If you can't commit to this baby 100% at this time in life there's no reason in having it and putting it through difficult times along with yourself and family. but through anything take care and listen to your heart...this is something that will change you for the rest of your life, whether you have it or not Moral: sleep safe and don't let it come to this in the future.....
Girlracer or Quinn whatever....she didn't ask for what has been happenin in your life?...there's a problem if you think about child support right away....and this quote?
"In fact, tell me how you handled it! I'll need to know someday in the future I'm sure."
i'm glad you walk around thinking about getting pregnant and plan on going through this process early on in life. This says a lot about you as an individual.
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