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hey, whats up y'all. well, let me first start off as saying that i am a practicing muslim. islamically we are allowed to mary people who are jewish or chirstian due to the fact that we all beleive in the god of abraham (we clal jews and christians "ehlam el kitab" or people of the book). As for your situation, well, i just got out of something similar. well, a few months ago my friend (who is hindu) is throwing a diwali party. i go and i meet her freind there. We start talking and we hit it off big time. Eventually, i find out she's sikh. Well, we start talking and we just straight up fall for each other. I asked her how her parents were (like with the strictness and all) and she said they were chill. now, heres where where we're from comes into play. Im a muslim from Pakistan and Afghanistan. Shes a sikh from India. If you know anything about global politics, its not the healthiest mix. We end up hookin up and i can honestly say that it was a match made in heaven. Like, our personalities completely fit into place and, to be honest, it seemed like we both loved eahc other very deeply. Now, her parents are insane. Now, most indian and pakistani parents dont want their kids going out with guys but her parents didnt want her going out period. like, i would only see her after school on thursdays and tuesdays cause we both finished early. so i would go to the other end of montreal on those days just to spend a few hours with her. it was a pain, but she was mosdefinitely worth it. A few weeks back i go to see her after we havent seen each other for like a week and a half (she was on march break and she couldnt really get out of the house {rather, she didnt really try}) and when i see her she says those lovely words, "we need to talk". she tells me that she cant really go on lying to her parents about us etc etc and we split up. i honestly felt my heart drop to the ground that moment. so we broke up, and even though this happenned like a month ago i still havent really gotten over it. well, thats my sob story. one of the things that attracted me to her ( just the fact that she was a good girl) ended up being the thing that did me in. well, im not trying to demotivate u juss been thinkin bout this alot today and this was oppertunity to vent. so neways, all im telling you is this. if you really do love her, fight till u have nothing left in you man. cause if you dont, you will regret it. if it doesnt work out at leats u can say " i did all i could" if u think about it in 5 years. so take care, good luck.
peace, salamz.
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