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Old 03-24-2003, 05:09 PM   #46
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Originally posted by spoogenet

I wouldn't necessarily say that cuddling is reserved only for relationships. I personally wouldn't think anything of it to see two girls cuddle. I think girls are a lot more physical with their friendships than are guys, and I could easily see a girl having a bad day and a girlfriend cuddling her for comfort, at least. Equally I can see a mother or father cuddling a child. I can see people cuddling with their dogs and even cats if the cat will stick around long enough.

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Ok....I can agree with the first part on certain occassions. Say for example a bunch of friends (guys and girls) are loungin around watchin movies...and one of the guys leans into the girl and uses her as a "pillow". I would consider this "cuddling" and it would be ok cuddling. I guess it's when you move that innocent kind of cuddling to the bedroom for a "sleepover" that I have issues with.
As for the second part (the 2 girls cuddling on a bad day thing)....I don't know about all that. Erin and I are the closests of friends and when either one of us has a bad day, sure we'll call each other or go over to each other's places....but we NEVER console each other with cuddling. I guess it would depend on the type of girls. Neither of us are overly emotional in that respect.
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