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I totally understand where you mom is coming from.
If I had a daughter, and her guy friend was spending the night, he would not be sleeping in her bed. If it was a bf, then that would be different.
Maybe it's just me, but having different guys come over, and cuddle in my bed, and sleep with me, just isn't my thing. Maybe if it's always the same guy, or like two different guy friends...but if it's like 4 or 5 different guy friends you cuddle with, that's just not cool...especially if they had girlfriends. I mean...come on...respect the guy's girlfriend.
It doesn't matter if you guys are doing anything or not. If a guy has a girlfriend, he shouldn't be cuddling up with any other girls, especially while spending the night.
It's also hard to believe nothing happens, even simple making out.
I have a really good guy friend, and I'm always spending the night at his place. I spend the night, cuddle with him, and sleep in his bed...and to be honest- it's not very innocent, actually...it's not innocent at all. But he's the only one I ever spend the night with. It's not like I have 5 guy friends and rotate them around or anything.
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