I know i'm late to this party, but I say screw them.
Let's find someone with the last or first name honda, then we'll sell the url to him, and lease if from him for like 35$ a year (what it cost anyways). Then we can claim that the name was in reference to the guy, not honda.
How about freedom of speech, doesn't that have something to do with this?? I mean, no where on the boards is there a honda symbol, is there? As long as the site is clean and the only reference to honda is the name,
www.hondastyle.com, then I don't think they can do anything about this. Plus, if you went to court i'm sure you'd win, and you could sue for time/damages/fee's and maybe make some money out of it...
Good luck man, we're behind you. I'd send 50$ via paypal to pay the lawer fee when it all comes down to it.