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Originally posted by zm_dawg
I have seen my big fat greek wedding with my girlfriend and thats how we are....i couldnt sum it up any differently it's the way we both feel. I understand both of the replies thus far...believe me I've sat here wondering is it worth it...but then I think why give up now who knows what may happen. And I understand how the parents may react, and thats the thing...in no way will i ever give her a deadline or say now or never cause it wouldn't be the easiest thing to do, that being going against your parents will. Yes i'm young, but I can't deny this love in search of a greater one, I just can't see myself giving into something I don't see eye to eye with. I think to myself why'd they move here and bring the family here, in search of a better life, a happier life. I see their daughter finding that...or reaching out to get outta the situation and to disallow her to doesn't make sense. Just like the movie they do own the family restraunt. That movie was like whoa is this serious. It's the inspiration for me lol. I don't know.....she just called me and told me that her parents got the phone bill and her cell phone bill and my # was all over it for thousands of minutes and her mom started crying and shit....I think her mom knows and doesn't want to admit to it.....i think it will all slowly unfold from here and maybe it will get to the point where i have to be on the outs...I dread the day cause I won't know what to do....I wouldn't be able to just find another girl...w/o comparing her to the last. I may be single for life after this one....if i don't get married lol.....tks guys....just babblin...venting...actually there's more of a topic here then....just me and my girlfriend..i'm sure there's a lot of others who go through it too....
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Considering all this new information you've shared with us, why dont you go and meet the parents? I know that might scare the shit out of you but its the right thing to do. If you are truly in love with this girl or for that matter any girl you've been seeing for a while the right thing to do is intro yourself to her parents. Its the way I've been raised so its always soemthing that I do but maybe in your case you haven't been raised that way.
I would figure out the best way to meet her parents and possibly after a few get togethers they will see you in a different light. They might just really be scared that their daughter will marry the wrong man who doesn't love her. Go and prove them otherwise, just remember in these cases things never happen over night. best of luck mate, keep us informed