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02-06-2003, 11:18 AM

Let me start by saying even my home phone rings some 20times aday and thats when i'm here to notice its ringing. For me phone calls are a big part of my job, when working i can take anywhere between 50 and 100 calls/day which tends to be a bit much.I also have some 200hours on my cell phone. So basically this means i dont like spending shit loads of time on the phone. I guess I have my moments some weeks are the shits for phone calls, and other weeks I just feel like calling (follow me?). But this doesn't mean if a girl calls i wont make time for her, it just means i'm not likely to call her alot that week.

On the topic of how many calls aday, it depends on why you are callling. One thing i've noticed is some of my mates used to call alot and not bother to ask if it was a good time. And because of this i typically ask if its a good time to talk (i dont like putting people off because i caught them at a bad time cause i know how it feels). There is no set number, if there is a reason to call her then its a good reason in my mind and it doesn't mean you have to spend an hour or more on the phone. Sometimes a nice 5minute convo is all thats needed and other times you're just calling to hear her voice because you are blue and then some calls are just those ones where it goes on for hours. Different people treat the phone differently some people dont call alot (me being one of them) and so I've never felt like i've called a girl too much and maybe i dont call often enough? i dunno??

As for the girls responsibilities she has to pick up the phone, if she doesn't take the call and you get the machine she should be the one getting in contact with you. If after awhile she doesn't give you a ring then its hard to tell whats going through her mind. If shes really happy to get a call from you then most likely she's just not the type of girl to call a guy alot. Now if you get the brush off or the machine more then normal then most likely the girl doesn't like you and this is when you stop calling her.

Denise it sounds like you really put your foot in your mouth on this one, way to be insensative! See your first mistake was not understanding where he is coming from, from the sounds of it he really did want to call and well maybe he feels bad for not calling after all this time and just figured you would have been snatched up by now- thus he didn't call you. The ball is in your court on this one, since you've gone and shoved the whole thing in his face.

02-06-2003, 11:18 AM	#2
mt.biker Posts: n/a	Let me start by saying even my home phone rings some 20times aday and thats when i'm here to notice its ringing. For me phone calls are a big part of my job, when working i can take anywhere between 50 and 100 calls/day which tends to be a bit much.I also have some 200hours on my cell phone. So basically this means i dont like spending shit loads of time on the phone. I guess I have my moments some weeks are the shits for phone calls, and other weeks I just feel like calling (follow me?). But this doesn't mean if a girl calls i wont make time for her, it just means i'm not likely to call her alot that week. On the topic of how many calls aday, it depends on why you are callling. One thing i've noticed is some of my mates used to call alot and not bother to ask if it was a good time. And because of this i typically ask if its a good time to talk (i dont like putting people off because i caught them at a bad time cause i know how it feels). There is no set number, if there is a reason to call her then its a good reason in my mind and it doesn't mean you have to spend an hour or more on the phone. Sometimes a nice 5minute convo is all thats needed and other times you're just calling to hear her voice because you are blue and then some calls are just those ones where it goes on for hours. Different people treat the phone differently some people dont call alot (me being one of them) and so I've never felt like i've called a girl too much and maybe i dont call often enough? i dunno?? As for the girls responsibilities she has to pick up the phone, if she doesn't take the call and you get the machine she should be the one getting in contact with you. If after awhile she doesn't give you a ring then its hard to tell whats going through her mind. If shes really happy to get a call from you then most likely she's just not the type of girl to call a guy alot. Now if you get the brush off or the machine more then normal then most likely the girl doesn't like you and this is when you stop calling her. Denise it sounds like you really put your foot in your mouth on this one, way to be insensative! See your first mistake was not understanding where he is coming from, from the sounds of it he really did want to call and well maybe he feels bad for not calling after all this time and just figured you would have been snatched up by now- thus he didn't call you. The ball is in your court on this one, since you've gone and shoved the whole thing in his face.