[silver]

i think the key in this topic is the guy. We know how she feels, but what about him? I gather he is 19, when I was 19 I needed to hook up with everything that moved, but I was able to keep committed to my gf at the time of 2yrs. Men at that age are at a stage where we need to go and experience everything the world has to offer, we are not ready to grow and be mature until we are forced to. Women at that age are beginning to become comfortable with themselves now that high school and the popularity game is over. The begin to learn what they want and their feelings begin to show. It is the time for maturing for women, and a time of play for men. lilcivicgirl, do not get burned by his instinct to go out and play and experience life, 4 years from now he may be ready, but he isn't yet. He is still a kid, few men are actual adults prior to 25 while women reach adulthood at 20.