[DsBlu01CivEX]

dude I know where you're comin from about bein retarded over the ex thing...and seeing the ex doesn't really help the getting over stage. But honestly I can say that I'm fairly well over my ex and really don't wanna get back together with him, but I still want him around and to be in my life. Like I said...I'm retarded. But I don't know that another person is necessarily gonna help you get over your ex. Sure it might take your mind off her for a lil while, but whose to say that you're only with the new girl cuz of trying to get over your ex. So basically you're just using this new girl to get over her. I say stick it out, chill with your friends, live your own life, talk to her if she calls but act uninterested, and wait till you find the girl that you actually wanna be with rather than just use some girl and probably break her heart. The other thing about dating a new girl is most likely you'd spend most of the time comparing the new girl to your ex....which isn't cool either.