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Yeah, you really need to just stop seeing her and talking to her. It's really crappy to say and it's not easy. I know because I just did it over the summer. It wasn't the same scenario. But I felt like you did in a lot of the ways that you mentioned. My ex and I broke up and we didn't talk for like 2 months and then we started talking again but we were seeing other people and for the first time that I saw him after those two months it still felt the same. I dunno. I could still see his feelings for me everytime that he looked at me. And it broke my heart because we weren't together. We broke up because we were together for a really long time and the marriage subject came up and that's something that he said that he was thinking about and that scared him because he didn't want that in his life at the time but that's how he felt and he said that he couldn't be with me. I dunno. So, we continued to talk and I would get nervous when it came to being with other people because I thought it would ruin any chance of us getting back together. Like I said, it broke my heart to not be with him and I was so sad and I was just sick of feeling that way and I had to be fair to myself. And I called him and said that I didn't like the way that it was all making me feel and I couldn't handle it. And that was it. That was in July. It was the hardest thing ever and it took time and I got over it. And I'm fine now. You need to do what's good for you. You can't put yourself through this. If you don't get away from the situation, you're never going to get over her. It's like going in the sun when you already have really bad sunburn.
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