[nonovurbizniz]

Just stop hanging out with her. She's ovbiously aware of the situation and now she lives far away so... don't call her ask her not to call you and just put it out of your life.

When you grow out of it then be friends with her (or don't). either way you're not going to get over her or change the dynamic of the relationship (you do her favors and love her but get nothing (or sometimes enough to keep you giving)).

You'll never get over it or change it until she's gone.

good luck.