what does it take...
 

What do you think it takes to truly love someone?

i think it takes someone ;)

it takes nothing...it sort of just is there...:radar:

dude your a goof!:crazy:

WOW thats a pretty broad question, it takes many things. I don't think you can put into words what it takes. Its probably different with each person. Its something you feel and think with every inch of your body you feel it. Cannot explain it bro......you just feel it.

:yes: :yes: :yes: I agree...I don't think that it can really be explained. It's just one of those things that just sorta happens.

and big titties.

lmao yes.. big titties

LMAO!

I really don't believe in "love"...I believe you wanting to be with someone because everything about them..mind, body, and soul appeals to you..."love" is just a 4 letter word.....just my $0.02....

"what makes a man, is it the woman in his hands..just cause she has big titties?...or is it the way he fights everyday?...no..its probly the titties"

jeebs what movie is that from?

huh? :crazy:

O my... I'm offended.... :paranoid: haha
I think it takes, common interests...of course looks must come into play somewhere, ability to get along, ability to get along SO well that during the day... you think of something they said, or did & this huge smile just comes across your face. *wink*wink* ;) ;)

No I'm pretty sure it's the titties:yes:

Yes big titties.. saving up for the wifes D cup.. can't wait to play with them.

:no: U guys are awful.

LMAO!!

Alright we've all had our laughs now lets get back on topic....

tities ;)

:crazy: Mmmkay... calling all passed the 2nd grade... anyone OVER 2nd grade? ;) :yes:

not me;)

:wave:

To truly love someone, you must feel pain and jealousy.

You must feel pain when you are apart...You don't feel complete without that person. You must be able to feel your loveone's pain, as well as other feelings.

Jealousy is the most important factor in love. Its not a question of self confidence or trust...Love makes you feel jealous...Without jealousy...there is no love.

If your loved one is not a jealous person...she/he does not love you...either they know your cheating, or they are cheating on you...Of course this is my opinion.

almost... I'll let ya know.

Sheesh guys.. Way to hose a thread.:banghead:

Im going to have to say you just know.

Its the person that gives you butterflies in your stomach everytime you see him/her even after the frist time you meet. Its the person that when they arent around you feel like your missing a part of you. Its the person that gets on your nerves, buts it still kinda cute.

How do you know someone is the right one for you? You dont really, but if real love is there for the both of you.. It will workout.:banana:

now thats another good reply.. way to go RR

takes a lot of effort, time and patience.

:no: I don't think it takes effort to really love someone. It's the most effortless thing ever. It just happens sometimes. Even when you don't want it to...and you try to not let it take over. It's hard to fight off.

Now lets see how far off base i am

I think sometimes you just connect with someone, maybe not in a major way but you do. then you start to get to know the person and you start to find you like the cute imprefections (heaven forbid a woman is not prefect) thats when i think you start lovin someone. As for what it takes, i think it takes honesty, respect and communication.

how hard was that?

sorry Quin but....:bs:

if you're view is true, then why is there so much cheating and divorce going on??????

now thats easy, people rush into relationships and generally dont take their vowes to mean much

Ok, ok...I KNOW there's some assholes out there, but some of us aren't!

As for what Mt. Biker was saying...you definitely know you're tumbling head over heels if you start loving imperfections, or little funny things a person does... :yes: ;)

Good call Rob.

that and there isn't any such thing as morals anymore....:rolleyes:

I know but it just seems like there are more "ares" then "aren'ts"....

Even makin eye contact has become a problem, some girls do anything to avoid it. The morals thing is an even bigger issue. I dont think people value a marriage or if they do its to easy to get out of one and people just run instead of staying and fighting.

You should know this there are two types of people in this world when it comes to conflict and they either take flight or fight. Most people today leave a situtation that becomes difficult. There aren't to many people that stay and try to work things out. Being a person not afriad of conflict i stick around and try to fix things up, but the other person might be someone who can't stand conflict and it never works out. It seems women are atracted to the guys who are dominate but then at the hint of trouble they are the first people to leave to their mothers house. Its really rare that you find a girl who is willing to respectfully stand up to a problem.

Now thats just one problem that we see today, there are so many others. But i dont want this to become into a woman bashing thread because i really like chicks and i dont want to generalize beyond reality.

I still think it's something different for everyone. I think for some people it is effortless to fall in love with someone and stick with them through all the hard times. Then I think there are people that have to work very had at falling in love (these are typically the people that I have found have been through a lot of sh!t in previous relationships or the selfish people). As for love, I believe in it....but it has multitudes of different levels. Some are easier to reach than others.

Now marriage on the other hand....I don't get the point of it....but that's not the topic of this thread

exactly....


as for your comments Rob, I agree with you 100%....

Re: what does it take...
 

love is when you can sacrifice your needs and wants without the though of what will happen to yourself. now to be able to do that there must be trust and lots of other crazy things that are hard to do.


plus the word love is way over used....

HEY NOW!!!! *D taps her foot* Not all of us are "corrupt" human beings!!! and we do have morals. I think a lot of us consider people to not have morals because they aren't the same morals we'd pick for ourselves to follow.


*sorry I don't know how I missed that line before...I just saw it now.

You're right about that, often we hold other people to a higher standard then we TRULY hold ourselves too, its human nature. I think if you can get past that you'r still goign to realize that in GENERAL society's moral code is slipping, its not teh end of the world you just have to keep it in mind. And when you find that special someone who's right for you, you make every possibly attempt to make it work.

my point was merely to say...who's to say another person's morals are wrong or inappropriate? Sure, I think there a lot of people that don't have good morals ect...BUT who's to say those people that I think "poorly" about don't think the same about my morals. I don't think there is just 1 "moral code" anymore. Sure back in the early 1900s there might have been, but our world today is completely different than it was 100 years ago. I dunno...just my take on things...