what's better?
 

just bored and wondering what you think is better.....

Neither.. Sex with the one you love is the best..:yes:

Almost right in line with Racing Rice:

Neither: Sex with married partner should be best - you shouldn't be messng around until then...

Make fun of me if you want, but I believe that a person should wait.

I agree totally, because neither will actually satisfy the emotional connection you are really looking for. Maybe the physical, but that is over when the sex is.

I have to agree. I'm not for just sleeping with numerous people whom I don't have any real feelings for. When you find someone special to share it with, its always so much better.

With the ONE.

Jet Lee??? :eek:
EEEEWWWW :o :pukey

haha...well that's not the point...haha..obviously having sex with the one you love is the best and always will be the best...but if you had to choose 1 of the 2 above..which one would it be.....

I completely agree... Everyone says you have to try a shoe on before you buy it , or test drive a car, But this is completely different and when you have the rest of your life to make it better, it doesn't matter if it starts out akward.

Oh Yeah... I voted for Freind ,

cuase my wife is my best freind


Gawd i must sound lame

nah man..that doesn't sound lame....its important for a husband & wife to be best friends....

but still no one understands..
if you are a guy: friend as in a friend that is a girl
if you are a girl: friend as in a friend that is a boy
....and if your married or in a relationship...just pretend you single!......haha....

Nah dude.. Thats great.. :yes:

My gurlfriend and I were best friends for 5 years before we started dating...so I guess with a friend is best.

Since I rarely dated someone twice, and when I did it was a mistake.. Ill have to say friend.. Tho I am friends with some of my exs, none of which I had sex with tho. Sex makes things totally different afterwards..:rolleyes:

:rolleyes: :rolleyes:

:crazy:

that took me a minute to figure out but i thought it was pretty dang funny

In that case I would go with ex-sex. If I went out with her before then there has to be some feelings there, unless she cheated. At least I will have some emotional attachment with my ex.

Sex with an ex is bad unless there are ABSOLUTELY no feelings there anymore, and in that case, why would you be sleeping with him/her again? It almost always leads to trouble. Sex with a friend isn't the best either because no matter how you go about it, the sex does change the friendship a bit.
Take Austin Powers for example when Dr. Evil has sex with that other nasty looking chick.......things got "weeerd":D

Anyway.......I'm of the opinion that people shouldn't be having sex unless they are both emotionally and financially prepared for the potential but very real consequences of their actions (pregnancy, STD's, etc.)
I never cease to shake my head when a friend calls me up totally freaked out because his girl might be pregnant and he's not ready for the stress. I just tell him/her that if you do the crime, be prepared to do the time, but people never seem to learn.

Abstinance is the key:yes: (unless your partner is really hot! lol)