alright granted im thinking of a relationship that works (both people are happy) vs being single. In this case i want to be in a relationship. I dont know to many people that want to get involved in a relationship that doesn't work. On my end the girls i start dating end up being someone other then who they appear to be.

Some of my best memories with a gf involve being all curled up together watch a movie. :) *oh the memories*

And now this guy comes out saying this. When I'm whining that I don't have a girl it's "oh grow up and get some balls. maybe you weren't meant to be in one, it's not so bad."
at least you HAVE memories...all Ihave is movies (not those kinds of movies you sick bastards. I mean normal movies) to rely on, since I can somewhat imagine what a relationship is. **** now this is pissing me off again...I'm in that shitty mood. Why can't it just work for once....:no:

at what price though, with the good comes the bad dude! you've seen the pain i've gone through, is it worth it? Right now i'm not sure if it is, i'm almost recovered so to say and if i was to find a girl who i figured was the right one i would take it alot slower then i have before. really get to know the girl first.

its your call on what you let bother you, but it takes a great man to realize the things he can and cannot change in his life; and to move forward on the things he can.
There is much to be learned and we both are young in the schem of things.

Yet the man still says:
hehe ;)
I know what you meant. But here is an example (might be a bad one)
You know how I really like the Leafs, and am a great fan. Even though they didn't win the cup since 67 (somethin like that).
From your perspective though, you gave up on them. You said until they can win the cup, it's not worth watching anymore.
Well for me, that's the feeling I have for myself. I'm loosing my self-confidence here. With the Leafs, they atleast won the cup. I haven't even gotten to Round one in my playoffs my friend. I know I'm an entry level team, and have a really bad offence, but still...look how far Carolina made it. I don't want the cup just yet, but at least round one.

i didn't say being single was fun but getting all worked up over it doesn't help you find your mate.

you need to sit back and enjoy whats around you, the right girl will find her way into your life. relax and yes get some balls... it hurts being single but hurts alot more to have and then not have anymore!

suck it up!

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Oh wow, I guess we all have a different belief. I respect your thoughts about sex.

I don't have such a experience although I think everyone should have their first experience.