Alright ladies...weigh in on this one

[GT40FIED]

So we're all adults here with a few youngin exceptions, right? So I want a straight no bullshit answer from you ladies.I've learned I can't trust anything I read about you girls in magazines, books, etc. and my own personal experience is equally as cloudy so I figure I'll go straight to the source. So here it is:

Which is more important for a male sexual partner to have...length or girth?

I've always been curious and you (as a guy) can't ask your partner cuz you know they're gonna tell you whatever it is you wanna hear to avoid hurting you or pissing you off. That's like asking "was it good for you?". You just can't do it. So let's hear it.

[BlackWolf]

Girth. :yes: Why be poked with something you can't even feel? :no: IMO, both would be GREAT but not everyone is hung that way. ;(

[DsBlu01CivEX]

I officially can not answer that one...sorry

[ebpda9]

so are u gonna believe what the girls are saying ?i don't think you would get 2 of the same answers anyway ;)

[GT40FIED]

Damnit Hondaman! What did I tell you about post whoring!

BTW DSblu...what gives with that answer? Are you trying to tell us you're a flying V? Not that there's anything at all wrong with that...I'm just confused by your reply.

[GT40FIED]

Originally posted by BlackWolf
Girth. :yes: Why be poked with something you can't even feel? :no: IMO, both would be GREAT but not everyone is hung that way. ;(

Actually that's not entirely acurate. Most of the vaginal nerve endings are in the lower 2/3...but some are indeed located further on up and some women out there are size queens. It's mostly dependent on the size of the man and the *ahem* "depth" of the woman. I remember talking to one girl who's "first time" was with a guy who was 11". She swears up and down she won't date a guy who's less than 9".

[BlackWolf]

My ex was 11" or 12" I'm not sure, but he definately had both, something like John Holmes. I've also dated a few men after/since that were "skinny" and some that were "thick". I prefer the "thick" kind. Probably 'cause I was spoiled before with my ex. I guess that's just my preference but absolutely not with the small kind. When you asked your question, I assumed you were refering to "average" size and then asking about the girth, length or lack there of added to it. The last guy I saw was long but thin and there was just no pleasure in it for me. Eh. Never did see him again. Didn't see the point. Heheehhe, point. I said point. Ah, never mind. It's too early to talk about size right now. I'm too tired and it's been too long of a dry spell for me.:crazy:

[GT40FIED]

Originally posted by BlackWolf
My ex was 11" or 12" I'm not sure, but he definately had both, something like John Holmes.

Now now...let's not say things we can't take back. John Holmes was 14" (literally longer than my arm) and almost as big around as a baseball bat. Unless you're a porn star or you've got about a size 16 shoe there's no way that's not ripping you in half.

[BlackWolf]

He was 6'5" with a 14 shoe and I'm 5'6" with a 8 shoe. We never measured "mister happy" but he was definately in the same league as Holmes. He should have been a porn star but he's way too shy for that. I guess as a personal preference, I like to be "stuffed". There's just no other way to describe feeling it like that. I LOVED IT!...........and yes, there were times when I had difficulty walking the next day........................ :yes: YYEEEAAAAHHHHH BABY! :banana:

[mylittlecivic]

Originally posted by DsBlu01CivEX
I officially can not answer that one...sorry

Yes there are some virgins here:radar:

[cashizslick]

Originally posted by mylittlecivic
Yes there are some virgins here:radar:

Just think, if more people waited to have sex untill they got married or whatever then this question would be a non-issue.

eh, just food for thought.

[sohc_vtec 2NR]

this question doesn't really matter, let's say 90% of woman enjoy length...would you go out and get surgery and change your god given form?? and vice versa for the girth.... hung or not there are ways to satisfy a woman no matter which side your on, or so i read...

[GT40FIED]

Originally posted by sohc_vtec 2NR
this question doesn't really matter, let's say 90% of woman enjoy length...would you go out and get surgery and change your god given form?? and vice versa for the girth.... hung or not there are ways to satisfy a woman no matter which side your on, or so i read...

Spoken out of true ignorance. Every question matters, even (and usually) the ones you don't think do. I ask this question for my own edification as I'm a human sexuality/pschology minor and deal with issues like this everyday in class. On a personal level, I'm very happy with my own traits and even if I wasn't I wouldn't run out and get surgery, but it's always good to get an opinion from the other side of the table. Besides...the board's been like a morgue for the last little while so why not post random questions? My apologies if you don't see the point...but that's not my problem.

[Whiteclipse99]

I can't really help you out on this topic either. Although I'm not a flying V, as GT40 put it, I'm like the next best thing. I've only done it once, so like I said, I can't really help you out on this topic.

[spoogenet]

Perhaps for the V's the question could be rephrased to inclued the power tools....or the old fashioned manual ones. ;)

I don't know a single girl who is happy with something she considers small, mainly in girth but also in length. But the definition of small varies by the girl. I've known girls happy to take a Holmes-sized piece and others happy with much smaller in both dimensions.....

Any girl who says size doesn't matter is lying, or just doesn't know any better. There's no pleasure in putting a pencil through a donut, nor a baseball bat through a cheerio. I also know girls who've been hurt and won't go with the super-sized value meal again too.

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[ohiochica]

ok i have been with 3 guys and 3 different sizes.......i can honestly say i prefer smaller. i wont name names but one guy was huge and i will say i didnt enjoy sex as much cuz i got tore up everytime no matter how calm it was, sex is not fun when you get hurt.

[crxracerx]

I'm no john holmes (nor would i want to be) but i'm 6 feet with a size 13 shoe. I sit in about 81/2 length and 6 in width, my girl likes it but when i start in hard she gets hurt. I have know some girls who love huge massive ones and girls who like smaller ones.

But here is some neat info, and yes this is accurate.

The Kinsey Report is one of the most complete studies of penis size to date. It states that the average white male has a penis measuring 6.2 inches long and 3.7 inches around, and the average black African male has a penis measuring 6.3 inches long and 3.8 inches around. This is a difference of only 0.1 inches, which is not statistically significant. Generally speaking there is no little difference in the size of the penises, and this is true worldwide.

[GT40FIED]

Actually the average male penis (erect) is 5 3/8" (according to my human sexuality book). But I agree...I don't know where people got the idea that black guys had these monsters wangs.

[mylittlecivic]

black guys can get away with bragging and joking about that more than anyone else i think.

[Shot 2 Hel]

and where did the whole shoe size thing come about hmmmmm?

[GT40FIED]

Originally posted by Shot 2 Hel
and where did the whole shoe size thing come about hmmmmm?

It's actually a truth about women. The smaller feet a woman has the smaller her....ummm...opening is since foot size is in direct proportion to the size of your pubic bone. It's totally irrelevent for men since penis size is in no way related to the size of your pubic bone. And now you know.

[ebpda9]

yeah it is related to the lenght of the palm and how much you can bend it.

[ohiochica]

LOL this is allllll soooo enlightening. LMAO

[spoogenet]

Hey do those "enlarge your member" spam emails really work? :rolleyes:

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[GT40FIED]

No...it is (I may be going out on a limb here, but hey...what are internet boards for) IMPOSSIBLE to enlarge your penis size without actual physical "exercise". You need to find a way to stretch the pours of the corpus cavernosum (the spongy tissue that holds the blood during an erection) so it can take in more blood meaning a bigger hard on. This is generally accomplished by doing something called "jelqing" (pronounced "jelking") and no, I'm not an information source for that...look it up yourself. Hehe. But pills, patches, and creams are useless. About all they'll do is give your stronger hard on (if even that), not a bigger one.

[ebpda9]

Originally posted by GT40FIED
This is generally accomplished by doing something called "jelqing" (pronounced "jelking")

sounds almost like "jerking" ;) :o

[ebpda9]

this is what i found so far: http://my.webmd.com/content/article/57/66024.htm?lastselectedguid={5FE84E90-BC77-4056-A91C-9531713CA348}

There are many variations on the technique, but the basic routine involves stroking the penis with a milking motion: Starting from the base, you slide your hand up the shaft, pulling and squeezing. Then you repeat the motion. You don't slide your hand over the head and back down the shaft as you would if you were masturbating. Instead, you stop when you reach the head, and start again from the base of the penis


what did i say about jerking ? :loco:

[Addict]

Ok next time hondaman sends me a link to the forum I'm ignoring it....

This is the dangerous area of HST......:yes: I thought GT40 asked the LADIES anyhow? He got like 3 responses. lol.. We need some ho's on this board...;)

[spoogenet]

Originally posted by hondaman-iac
sounds almost like "jerking" ;) :o

Many native speakers of East Asian languages wouldn't be able to make the distinction between the two. ;)

So now I can use the excuse "I'm jelking off, not jerking off, dammit!" to make it sound like I'm not the average guy?

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[GT40FIED]

I dunno...either way you don't come off looking too good. Not the *average* guy indeed. :thumbsup:

[dj_yuma]

I am getting a kick out of this post ;)

[silver]

on mondays and thursdays i jelk off, but the other days i save for jerkin.



that was a lot funnier before i actually typed it
:no:

[mylittlecivic]

lol you silly

[Importrepairguy]

Who the F*ck cares! As long as your gettin some, be happy you can still get it up. Don't be so hard on yourself, we all can't be John Holmes but he was a *** too, I don't wanna be catagorized w/ guys like that do you? anyhow there is nothing you can do about it anyway less surgery......tieing a weight to it won't work, or so I've heard! ;) and you can't make it eat or inflate it w/ air, assumpsions there.;) So just enjoy what lil ya got and get on with it! Good Luck in future ventures......If you can't pleazim' buy a huge dildo for em'.:yes:

[juvenile]

Very interesting post...you've been making a lot of good ones bro. So if you're just a bit above average, are you set?

[GT40FIED]

Being "set" is a psychological thing. You could have a 2" pencil wang and be perfectly happy with it and be "set". Now, since the medically established average male penis size is 5 3/8", anything bigger would technically be "above average" (there is no average measurement for girth). It's all a mindset...confidence is really the main factory to performance but I figured I'd ask the ladies what their perspective was. There just aren't enough chicks on this board. Go figure.

[juvenile]

haha yeah, it being a car board and all ;)

[spoogenet]

Performance is all relative and subjective. It all depends on what the both of you do and how well it works out for the both of you, it's a matter of opinion and the specific interaction between two (or more ;) ) people. Some girls are plenty happy with a couple of minutes, others are closer to insatiable and want lots more. Some girls can take forever to be pleased, others are quick to get off. Same goes for guys. Go figure. Of course "doing it right" for the person speeds things up a little......some people jive like that, others don't. Just don't marry someone you're not sexually compatible with, unless you want to be a married couple who has no sex.*

* I'm not implying married people DO actually have sex, I've only heard rumors they do. :D

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[mylittlecivic]

hey juv;)

[juvenile]

I take the smiley as an intuition that you notice me and I just wanted to put you on notice that I noticed you too. ;)

[silver]

ok maybe this question i have is a little too much info....but who cares...anywayz...after doing the wild mamba with some girls, they have told me(and i've seen) that they started bleeding. it wasn't that time of the month for them so i'm curious as to exactly what it is thats leaking. i'd like to think that i'm such an animal that i'm tearing a new ass but at the same time i feel kinda bad. this happen to anyone else? oh and you can refer to me as the "ripper" from now on.

[GT40FIED]

Ok Silver (or "ripper")...if I had to guess I'd say the bleeding has nothing to do with you. Unless your wang is as big around a coke can and about 15" long, I don't think it's you. If you were big enough to make a girl bleed, she'd throw you off of her way before she had a chance to start bleeding. My guess is that said girl or girls were not properly lubricated (naturally...not talking about Astroglide here). Inner vaginal walls are fairly sensitive and can be bruised or torn (like a small cut) fairly easily. This is especially true when drinking since the body doesn't respond to sexual stimuli as it usually would. In some cases medication can also be the culprit since it also screws with your body chemistry and makes it act in ways it isn't supposed to. There's a few psychological factors too...if she's nervous, inexperienced, etc. her body won't respond as it usually would. Then there's always the possibility they really don't wanna do you that bad. Lol. jfwy...but that can actually be a major factor in inadequate lubrication. Holy shit, I feel like Dr. Drew sans the attitude.

[mylittlecivic]

are you dr drew?:eek:

[GT40FIED]

Now if you'd read the last part of the post, I'm sans the attitude. I AM, however, a human sexuality/psychology minor (auto tech service management major). Bow to me. Lol...j/k

[silver]

nah...i'm gonna go with the first option that i'm hung like a rhino...even though i'm half asian so already losing there.

but seriously...they weren't drunk and i'm assuming that they wanted it, the last girl basically threw herself onto me. so in terms of lubrication, even if the stimulation is there i'm guessing that sometimes it just doesn't get as slippery as others, to put it plainly. if that were true i would have hated to be the girl, that has to not feel pleasant.

[Honda_Tengoku]

Originally posted by BlackWolf
My ex was 11" or 12" I'm not sure, but he definately had both, something like John Holmes. I've also dated a few men after/since that were "skinny" and some that were "thick". I prefer the "thick" kind. Probably 'cause I was spoiled before with my ex. I guess that's just my preference but absolutely not with the small kind. When you asked your question, I assumed you were refering to "average" size and then asking about the girth, length or lack there of added to it. The last guy I saw was long but thin and there was just no pleasure in it for me. Eh. Never did see him again. Didn't see the point. Heheehhe, point. I said point. Ah, never mind. It's too early to talk about size right now. I'm too tired and it's been too long of a dry spell for me.:crazy:

what are u a porn star or something?